The man of your dreams has romantically proposed, of course you say yes! You rush to tell family and friends, you excitedly set the date, life is good… next comes the wedding planning, juggling your time and money, ploughing through endless to do lists, politely rising above interfering friends and family and resisting the will to throw or break something when your car driver carelessly double books and cancels one week before the date.
Miraculously you kept on track, you kept your calm and your mind -the day is set to be a success! But wait, you’re worried that surely something will go wrong, something will indeed be misplaced, broken, forgotten – disaster! Not to worry, we have a few answers to the most common anxieties a bride will face.
I think that we can all agree that the biggest issue if it were to happen is ‘no- show’ of your groom.
Your beloved, of course he will show! – Relax, he did ask you after all, and he hasn’t ran for the hills during the whole stress of planning the day, even when maybe once or twice bridezilla surfaced. He’s in for the long haul and cannot wait to make you his better half!
*We definitely recommend that you put you foot down and not let his best mate whisk the stags off too near the wedding, a hung-over groom or a groom in another country would be what we consider a match to a flame.
Your bridesmaids – strong and in control, not a chance in hell that they are going to let anything spoil your day. Rely on them, delegate to them, they are your closest friends and you know you can trust there decision making. Let them deal with any problems that may occur, leaving yourself free to enjoy and experience your day.
* We recommend that you give at least two of your bridesmaids an emergency recovery kit to keep in there bags, consisting of useful bits to combat any unplanned predicaments; nail varnish to double whammy chipped nails and ladders in stockings! Hairspray to keep your locks looking no less than perfection, a sewing kit to be prepared for any snags or tears, wipes to remove any stains, makeup for vital touch ups and perfume to keep you smelling sweet.
Good company – Surround yourself with it, enjoy the ride, benefit all of the details that you put into place during your planning. Laugh, catch up with relatives, enjoy being a newly wed, laugh at the speeches, enjoy the food, drink your champagne, dance at your disco and enjoy the simple fact that all of your hard work has paid off, each and every one of your guests have come to celebrate the union of you and your new husband.
Now what?-
After all the time and effort that was ploughed into the big day its all over, its time for the debrief. Now what will you do with all of your time? Your life of marital bliss has begun, you can focus on your new life as a Mrs, and if that’s not enough, you can busy yourself with present opening, thank you cards , honeymooning, name change forms, wedding albums…
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